No, I’m not referring to something else. I’m talking about that boring game where you wait more than 10 minutes for your opponent to make his/her move.
You think it’s boring? I do too, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have anything to learn from it, you know. It’s in fact one of the best games you could learn and you wouldn’t regret it in your whole life.
Of course knowing chess wouldn’t get in bed with that chick you’re running after her for the last past years. Guts will take you there, but chess can help you get there by teaching you something of great value: when to lose so you can win.
Figure this. You’re with that chick you wanted to bang for some time now. She knows that, but she wouldn’t bang you back (*nigh*), but somehow (for the sake of this explanation), you’re with her in some room, at the point of nailing her. What would you do? Most of you (guys) would even argue with me, but the best thing you could do if you want to have sex with her more than one time is to get dressed, apologize, say that it isn’t OK to fuck her on your first night, and leave. Believe me, this IS the best thing you can do. The shock of being refused knowing you chased her for a long time would make her even more interested in you and (here comes the good part), you become the one being chased.
This is a simple example, but this rule applies to almost everything and is simple as that, lose now so you can win later.
Chess mate!